These are the days to remember...

If I wanted to record my life I guess this is as good a way to do it as any. My name is Becki. I'm a Christian, a wife, a mom, and so much more. I have thoughts, I have feelings, I have emotions, and I have opinions. I also have a great dislike for people who assume stay-at-home moms can't think for themselves - and let's face it, the world is full of people like that. I blog because I can, I write because I like to, and I think about life a lot - often quite loudly...



Writing Prompt Project – I Am

I am. I am. I am.

The first thing that popped into my mind was God.  How could anything else enter with those two words?  And now as I sit here I am starting to think more such as… I am because He is.  I am because He was before me.  I am because He did.  I am because He does.

I am loved.

I am cared for.

I am thought about.

I am provided for.

I am blessed.

I am saved.

I am forgiven.

I am but a little speck of dust on this great big earth – not worthy of much, yet He gives me everything.

I am because He loves me.  I am because He died for me.  I am because He has a plan and I am part of it.

I am what He made me.  I am His work in progress.  I am what He knew I would be before I was even born.

I am His.

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My “Teenager”

A new phase has entered the house of Becki.  It has been one that I knew would come sooner or later.  I especially knew when Bug began his technology obsession before the age of two.  I knew when he had his own pretend (yet very real and just not connected to a service provider) cell phone.  I realized it would be major when that one phone escalated into three phones and the desire to have even more.

It became even more clear when Bug started showing me how things worked on the phone.  Showing me!  How is it that he should know what I do not?

I knew it – I knew that one day he would be the teenager glued to the phone and never wanting to get off.

But what I didn’t know was that he would go through his teenaged phone phase at the very young age of five.

Bug loves to make phone calls.  He will talk your ear off for hours if you let him.  He will attempt to tell you jokes, stories of what happened throughout the day, tales of what he did or didn’t eat, the color of the sky, details of the car driving by – whatever he can talk about.  He may never talk to you in person.  He might not even look at you.  But get him on the phone and he will never stop.

And what cracks me up is that he actually will get on the phone (dialing all by himself) and then say to me, “I’m going to my room now where it is quiet so I can talk.”  Then he will do just that and lay on  his belly on top of his bed with his feet up like I once did when I was thirteen!

He calls his Daddy every day at 4:15 and talks to him the entire drive home – pretty much until the Hubs turns onto our street.

He calls my brother.

He has tried calling his Grampa but didn’t realize that Grampa works.

He will call Gramma – he even left her a voicemail the other day!

How did my five year-old become a teenager so quickly!?!

And heaven forbid you interrupt him!  When Bug is on the phone that is it – no one better disturb him, LOL!!!

What a hoot!


Writing Prompt Project – Thought is Free

Thought is free.

This reminds me of what my Husband and I are always saying to each other, “It’s free to dream.”  Let’s face it, life is expensive and there are always things we want.  Ya know, things like that fancy vacation to Greece that I may never get… because we can’t afford it.  But hey, it’s free to dream.

Thinking… thought… dreams… ideas… questions… answers… it’s all free.

Aside from being free to dream about “things” I am suddenly sitting here thinking about how that is one freedom that will never be taken away from us.  We live in a world that is changing constantly and it seems that ever day I wake up to something more in the news that shows someone somewhere having something that should be their right just taken away.. yet, our thoughts and the ability to think them – this will never be taken and there is no charge for it.  We don’t need money, we don’t need status, we don’t need fancy houses or fancy cars.  Thought is free.  The use of the brain God gave you is free.  We can open our minds to anything – we can discuss everything.  There is no reason not to.  The economic crisis does not have an effect on us when it comes to what goes on inside our heads.

But one day, one day voicing those thoughts will not be free.  One day, I promise you Christians, we will not be able to share our thoughts openly.  Savor that still small voice inside because one day you are going to rely on it completely.

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